Set chairs in a circle or sit in a circle and create a place for prayer with a cross, candle, or other Christian sign in the middle. After prayer, remain in the circle but move the candle or cross so that Jenga is now in the center. Return the cross for closing prayer.
Gather (5 minutes)
Engage (30 minutes)
Activity 1: Jenga!
Set up the game of Jenga so that teens do not see what is written on the blocks. Make sure the three God blocks are on the bottom and the house is placed on top. The house is what Matthew was speaking of in the gospel. Begin to play Jenga, but every time someone removes a block, ask them to identify why a the role (i.e. a friend) is a good support, and why they might be a bad support or have shortcomings. When teens pull the God blocks, ask them why God is a different kind of support. If they cannot fully articulate this, that is fine at this point. Play until the house falls, although if it falls quickly, reset and continue play until teens have each pulled two or three blocks. Leave the blocks fallen in a pile in the middle of the room.
Activity 2: Discussing Bible Verses
Introduce this activity by explaining that the reason God is different than all those other sources of support because He is immutable. It may be helpful to read the definition of immutable as described below. We often end up trying to understand God by fitting him into categories we already have: father, friend, or counselor. The problem with those molds is that God is so much more than just a friend. Just as those with absent fathers have problems understanding God as father, we all have problems understanding God’s friendship because none of us have perfect friendships. By studying the differences between God and us, we can break out of these molds.
Assign teens in groups of two or three to find and discuss one of the following Bible verses on God’s difference. Give them time to talk in groups, and then come together and have them explain how that verse told them about God. Guide them to use the surrounding passage and scripture. Use Bible verses such as Isaiah 55:8-9, Numbers 23:19, 1 Samuel 16:17, 2 Samuel 22:32, Psalm 33:11, Psalm 102:26-27, Hebrews 13:8, Deuteronomy 31:8, James 1:17, Daniel 7:14, Hebrews 1:10-12, etc.
Reflect (20 minutes)
Activity 3: Question After Sharing
Send Forth (5 minutes)