Exercise 1: “Deciding the Right Option” Game
- Have several pictures or cards with words that you may hold up. These should be two options that the students will have to decide between. Most of these should be subjective ideas: cat or dog, apple or orange, etc. Have a few that have “right” answers: vegetable or chocolate, doing homework or not doing homework, etc.
- Go around allowing youth to answer
- End with a difficult choice: one parent says to do the dishes, but a friend who is having a hard time texts you, and really needs to talk. You only have time for one; which do you do?
- Afterwards, ask the youth to reflect on why they made the decisions that they did.
- Was it hard to make those decisions?
- Ask any of them if they had regret or wanted to change their minds. Discuss how decisions can be hard, especially when told conflicting ideas.
Exercise 2:
Watch together The Matrix –“The Red Pill, Blue Pill” scene, in which Neo makes a choice